Wednesday, May 13, 2015


Sexual Energy and Happiness

Sexual energy can be one of the most powerful influences on our overall vibe. 
The mere thought of sex, for most people, starts an autonomic response with increased blood flow, heightened senses, and physiological responses. Mentally, we instinctively begin to visualize and fantasize, and our vibrations immediately rise to the occasion. 

As humans, we are sexually driven. We engage in sexual activity for procreation and pleasure. Pleasure raises our vibe and helps us relieve the stress needed for manifestation of our goals and desires.

On the flip-side of that coin, society has placed a stigma on sex. Society and organized religion has tried to tell us what is acceptable, what is taboo, what is right, and what is wrong. For many people, that has caused a stifling of energy that is counter-productive to achieving joy and happiness. In the modern era, we are much more free to explore sexuality than in the past, but for many the stigma is still present, if not dominant. Those who succumb to what society and religion has taught are denying themselves one of the most profound and powerful energies that exists in the Universe.

Many societal and religious beliefs have us thinking that anything other than traditional sex between a married man and a woman is wrong. Most religions have us believing that it is wrong to be gay or lesbian, or that it is wrong to engage in premarital sex. Society has us believing that women can have too many sexual partners and men can have too few. It is really just more limiting beliefs that we were raised with that prevent us from all of the joys that sexual encounters can bring to us. 

Many people have a lot of distorted sexual beliefs because of outside influences. Some people have been raised to believe that our sexual parts are bad, or traumatic events have caused a deep underlying fear of sex. Many people hate their sexual organs, and because of this, have shut down the desire altogether. For some, their views have become so distorted that they use destructive sexual energy to control and take dominion over others. When a person has been negatively influenced in their views of sex, sometimes coaching may be the answer.

Sexual energy is very powerful. It is powerful on the physical level because it of heightened physical senses and physical pleasure. It increases blood flow, increases heart rate, increases our fitness levels, and releases physical tension. Mentally, sex is very powerful in relieving stress, improving our mood, and (afterward) increasing our mental capacity by clearing our minds of clutter. Sex has the ability to change our emotions. We can feel loved, wanted, needed, and accepted. It can give us a polarity shift. It can turn our bad moods good and completely take our minds away from our problems.

On the spiritual level, sexual energy can be even more powerful. Spiritually, sexual energies can make us feel as one with our partners. We can feel the Divine Oneness of the Universe through the spiritual unity with our partners. Even if we are physically separated from a partner, when both are aligned with each other, and the Universe, sexual energy can be transmitted and felt by both no matter the distance. We can be separated by thousands of miles and still feel the energy, the emotion, the desire, and the fire that these energies kindle.

For me, sex and achieving orgasm is the closest and best way to feel Divine Oneness with another person. I happen to be attracted to women, but this feeling of Oneness can be felt no matter a persons sexual orientation. When we learn how to use our sexual energy in a balanced and loving way, our Oneness knows no physical gender. Like attracts like - sexual energies are no exception. What matters is our level of intention, energy, love and interest in sharing our sexual energy with someone we truly love and respect. 

It cannot stressed enough how important a balanced sexual life is for everyone of us. With that being said, it is not always safe for us to have too many partners. With modern diseases and predatory people, it is wise to use discretion and protection.
Sex should be done with love and respect, other than that there are no other rules. Anything else is just limiting beliefs and insignificant details. We all have free will, and can do anything we want as long as it is mutual, respectful, and with consent. It should always done with love and appreciation for the other person and their well being as well as our own. 

Believe to Achieve!

Joe Vulgamore is a Life Coach, Certified Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner as well as a Personal Development Author and Speaker. He works with people who are struggling with limiting beliefs, core values, and goal setting to sharpen their edge, perform at optimum levels, and achieve excellence. He has a proven track record of helping thousands of people from over 14 countries, across 5 continents, to make life-transformations through one-to-one coaching and workshops.


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